tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post3818630756045138160..comments2023-09-25T07:18:11.130-07:00Comments on It's All About Balance: Just a RantAprilhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12051174636017409935noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post-85206509066243116302008-04-21T12:30:00.000-07:002008-04-21T12:30:00.000-07:00When my husband and I were separated, he never cal...When my husband and I were separated, he never called. Like, EVER. And my kids never noticed, either. That's a really sad statement.Mr Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09998773078408832376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post-59679448495812166872008-04-16T11:55:00.000-07:002008-04-16T11:55:00.000-07:00"...he won't be home when it's convenient for me t..."...he won't be home when it's convenient for me to yell at him..."<BR/><BR/>I know this is a serious, ranting post and everything, but that phrase had me laughing out loud.LunaNikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13981677669711596784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post-63095563364619643602008-04-15T10:57:00.000-07:002008-04-15T10:57:00.000-07:00I ALWAYS love hearing a crazy woman bitch, that's ...I ALWAYS love hearing a crazy woman bitch, that's why I'm a lesbian. <BR/><BR/>However, I have to agree with everyone else. When my kids are at their dad's in the summer, they never call because they aren't thinking about me at all. That's fine, when they're here, they don't think about their dad. It works out perfectly. Of course, their dad isn't a DB, he's a good guy whose wife faithfully writes out the support checks twice a month.Me. Here. Right now.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17340392061207298502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post-54717535667084399602008-04-15T06:29:00.000-07:002008-04-15T06:29:00.000-07:00I'm with the others - let it be if the girls aren'...I'm with the others - let it be if the girls aren't noticing it. If Dad is still a druggy, he's never going to "be there" for them in any case, which sucks, but is probably true.<BR/><BR/>Huge hugs on this one.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02362687820368214420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post-44612385770970315852008-04-15T05:50:00.000-07:002008-04-15T05:50:00.000-07:00I would agree that if the girls aren't bothered by...I would agree that if the girls aren't bothered by his lack of calling/caring, then let it go. <BR/><BR/>But if you're anything like me, it's incredibly frustrating because you know how wonderful those girls are and you want him to know it, too. And he just doesn't seem to care that much.<BR/><BR/>Ugh. Exes are such a pain in the ass.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post-75907218916538906032008-04-14T21:42:00.000-07:002008-04-14T21:42:00.000-07:00It's great that the girls aren't affected by his b...It's great that the girls aren't affected by his behavior, but I'm still sorry the guy is a dick head. <BR/><BR/>I have no idea what I'd do in your situation April, all I know is I'm a hothead and I'd really have to watch it around the little ones if their dad was like that.<BR/><BR/>Take care hun!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07492761626352593047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post-24723060028379680732008-04-14T16:01:00.000-07:002008-04-14T16:01:00.000-07:00April, you and I have already talked about this, b...April, you and I have already talked about this, but I had to comment on the above comment: THAT is freaking funny!Korihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17523892197119604721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post-68279877427533108232008-04-14T15:45:00.000-07:002008-04-14T15:45:00.000-07:00Yeah, I say go with it. If the girls aren't phased...Yeah, I say go with it. If the girls aren't phased, who needs it!<BR/><BR/>Sounds like a Douchebag (with a "big" D).<BR/><BR/>One of my good friends is on her second marriage and her husband has a total loser of a first wife. (Her first husband was also a loser, but not AS MUCH of a loser.) Anyway, so I asked her why she thought he married woman #1 to begin with. She shrugged and said "Well, we all make mistakes when we're young." Hell, I think about some of the guys I hooked up with/dated and throw up a little in my mouth, too! LOSERS!KGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10236206776336550381noreply@blogger.com